The Queen's Chair: oral sex with control in your hands
A position that literally puts the receiver on the throne. By sitting on their partner's face for oral sex, the receiver controls the pressure, angle, and rhythm: pure pleasure with the reins in their power.
Also known as: queen's chair · queening · face sitting · sitting on the face · throne
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Oral sex in the superior position (queening)
- Active anatomy
- Mouth / Tongue
- Receptive anatomy
- Vulva / Clitoris / Anus
- Main stimulation
- Clitoral / Vulvar / Oral
- Participants
- 2
Anatomy and biomechanics
Oral stimulation in the superior position of the receiver (face-sitting): the receiver adopts a seated position on their partner's face, regulating the pressure with their weight and leg position. Gives the receiver total control of the angle and frees the hands of the giver. Requires communication to dose the support.
Why this position works
Control is its great appeal: the receiver adjusts every nuance of the stimulation by moving the pelvis, something that provides very precise pleasure. It also has a very exciting charge of power and surrender for many couples, and frees the hands of the giver to add caresses.
Variations of this position
1. Face to face: clitoris in control
Person sits facing their partner, giving oral sex to the clitoris.
The receiver looks towards their partner's feet; direct access to the clitoris.
- The giver lies on their back.
- The receiver sits facing their partner's face.
- Controls the pressure with their knees.
2. From behind: another angle
Person sitting with their back to their partner's face, another oral angle.
The receiver turns their back, changing the angle of the tongue and adding posterior stimulation.
- The receiver sits with their back turned.
- Change the angle of stimulation.
- The giver adds their hands.
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people base setup
- Hetero Most common
- Lesbian Most common
Frequently asked questions
Can it be uncomfortable for the giver?
No, if the receiver controls the weight by supporting themselves; always communicate.
Facing forward or backward?
Both: facing forward for the clitoris, backward changes the angle and provides different stimulation.
Why is it so popular?
Because of the total control of the angle and rhythm, and because of its charge of power and surrender.
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Sources and references
- Literatura de sexología clínica y ergonomía sexual
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