Side-by-Side Face to Face: Intimacy without bearing weight
The spooning position, but looking into each other's eyes. Both on your side and face to face, intertwining your legs: the closeness of missionary with the comfort of the lateral decubitus, without anyone bearing weight.
Also known as: side-by-side face to face · lateral frontal · side by side face to face
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Frontal Lateral Penetration or Contact
- Active anatomy
- Pénis / Vulve
- Receptive anatomy
- Vagin / Vulve
- Main stimulation
- Frontal / Clitoris
- Participants
- 2
Anatomy and biomechanics
Frontal lateral decubitus: Both on your side, face to face, with legs interlaced to allow pelvic closeness. As there is no weight bearing or lumbar compression, it is one of the positions with the least physical cost, suitable for pregnancy, recovery, and bodies that need comfort, while maintaining eye contact.
Why this position works
Combines the best of two worlds: the intimacy of face to face and the total comfort of lying on your side. No one bears weight, so it can be prolonged without fatigue, and the hands are free to caress. It's a gem for pregnancy, 'slow sex,' and lazy mornings.
Variations of this position
1. Leg over hip: more openness
Face to face from the side, with the upper leg of one person supported on the other's hip.
The receiver supports the upper leg on the partner's hip, opening the angle.
- Adopt the side-by-side face-to-face position.
- One person lifts the leg over the other's hip.
- Adjust until comfortable contact.
2. Full-body hug: maximum closeness
Side by side, face to face, embracing with arms and legs, bodies very close.
Both embrace with arms and legs, reducing the gap between the bodies to a minimum.
- From side by side, face to face, hug with arms and legs.
- Reduce the gap between the bodies.
- Short and intimate swaying.
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people base setup
- Gay Most common
- Hetero Most common
- Lesbian Most common
Frequently asked questions
Is it good during pregnancy?
Excellent: no weight on top or pressure on the abdomen, and with eye contact.
Is penetration difficult?
At first, adjust the leg intertwining; once you fit, it is very comfortable.
Is it suitable for 'slow sex'?
It's perfect: low effort, lots of intimacy, and a slow pace.
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Sources and references
- Literatura de sexología clínica y ergonomía sexual
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